I lost my mom to pancreatic cancer almost exactly two years ago. Seven weeks from diagnosis to gone. I see you and I am proud of you for feeling it all and doing what you need to do.
😭 oh my, thank you for sharing these heartfelt words, and for your existence. thinking of you & your mom and wishing you all the time & space your heart may need right now ❤️🩹
I will probably come back to this post again and again, the reminder that showing up consistently means there is room for everything we feel and are as we show up, whatever that looks like, was so needed. endlessly grateful for you & your (open hearted, unmasked) work 🫶🏽
Chelsia, thank you for sharing your truth. I hope you and your mother soak up every moment possible in the months ahead and know we will be here waiting for your words of wisdom whenever they flow.
Your vulnerability allowed some of my own grief to flow down my cheeks, deep breaths, and some release. I needed that clearing. In some way, it is my hope that in sharing how your words help hold others in moments, that you feel held in this moment too.
I see you. I understand your pain. You are not alone. I think we shine best when unpolished, in our raw humanity. 🫂 ♥️
May God bless you and your Mom during this sacred time. My best friend is on a colon cancer journey as well. Praying you, your Mom and your family find strength in each other's love.
I pray 🤲🏾 that peace be upon your family and you; that you discover loving gratitude in new ways as you celebrate these moments. If available, capture your mother’s voice, her laughter and the pearls of wisdom that she continues to share.
Yes, it is an ending; one that you have grown familiar with; however, it is a beginning into all the things she has poured into you…surrender to the deeper connection that is bound forever… peace, blessings and ase’!
Thank you for sharing and showing up to yourself to heal with writing. I know how much it helps.
This is my first comment, although I came here through your post "It's not burnout it's oppression" and have been a silent follower of your journey. It has been crucial to mine as a way to finally come back to myself, write and connect.
Thank you, Dr. C. For letting me see you and giving me courage. You and your mom have the nicest smiles! I can almost hear how soothing her voice must be based on yours.
Many years ago I lost my great grandmother to colon cancer. She was in her 90's and I was in my 30's (we're a young family). When I called her that spring as I always did, she told me about her diagnosis and that she was ready. I was pretty sure I was the only one who knew. I called my mother to let her know what was going on and she called her sisters together to make a trip to say their goodbyes. My mom and her 3 sisters spent a week with their grandmother just doing everyday things like going to the grocery store (she no longer drove). They got one of those electric scooters for her to drive so she could pick her own groceries, and had her practice in the parking lot. One of my aunts said, "Now Grandma, no wheelies," which sent some passerby into fits of laughter.
When they went back for the funeral, all my great grandma's friends talked about what a great time she had with her granddaughters. It was the best gift she could have asked for.
I hope you both enjoy the time you have left together. A little laughter through the tears. Beautiful and funny stories to help get through the pain. My heart aches for you both. My thoughts are with you and holding you both close. Take care of you. Breathe.
I lost my mom to pancreatic cancer almost exactly two years ago. Seven weeks from diagnosis to gone. I see you and I am proud of you for feeling it all and doing what you need to do.
Thank you for the kind words. They are appreciated. I am sorry for your loss.
Sending love and gratitude to you and your mom for sharing your 🕯️ Hope you both continue to feel held through this journey 🫶🏿
Thank you, Alisha.
This is such a beautiful demonstration of being human. Thank you so much for honoring your heart and sharing it with us.
😭 oh my, thank you for sharing these heartfelt words, and for your existence. thinking of you & your mom and wishing you all the time & space your heart may need right now ❤️🩹
I will probably come back to this post again and again, the reminder that showing up consistently means there is room for everything we feel and are as we show up, whatever that looks like, was so needed. endlessly grateful for you & your (open hearted, unmasked) work 🫶🏽
You are welcome. Gratitude 🫶🏽
Chelsia, thank you for sharing your truth. I hope you and your mother soak up every moment possible in the months ahead and know we will be here waiting for your words of wisdom whenever they flow.
Your vulnerability allowed some of my own grief to flow down my cheeks, deep breaths, and some release. I needed that clearing. In some way, it is my hope that in sharing how your words help hold others in moments, that you feel held in this moment too.
I see you. I understand your pain. You are not alone. I think we shine best when unpolished, in our raw humanity. 🫂 ♥️
Gratitude 🫶🏽
May God bless you and your Mom during this sacred time. My best friend is on a colon cancer journey as well. Praying you, your Mom and your family find strength in each other's love.
I pray 🤲🏾 that peace be upon your family and you; that you discover loving gratitude in new ways as you celebrate these moments. If available, capture your mother’s voice, her laughter and the pearls of wisdom that she continues to share.
Yes, it is an ending; one that you have grown familiar with; however, it is a beginning into all the things she has poured into you…surrender to the deeper connection that is bound forever… peace, blessings and ase’!
I appreciate your words. Gratitude 🫶🏽
Thank you for sharing and showing up to yourself to heal with writing. I know how much it helps.
This is my first comment, although I came here through your post "It's not burnout it's oppression" and have been a silent follower of your journey. It has been crucial to mine as a way to finally come back to myself, write and connect.
Thank you, Dr. C. For letting me see you and giving me courage. You and your mom have the nicest smiles! I can almost hear how soothing her voice must be based on yours.
I appreciate these words. Gratitude 🫶🏽
Sending love to your family. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Your vulnerable share is encouraging and appreciated! It’s ok not to be okay…and you’ve got this!
Sending you so much love, many warm hugs, and support as you create memories with your mom that you’ll forever cherish!
Many years ago I lost my great grandmother to colon cancer. She was in her 90's and I was in my 30's (we're a young family). When I called her that spring as I always did, she told me about her diagnosis and that she was ready. I was pretty sure I was the only one who knew. I called my mother to let her know what was going on and she called her sisters together to make a trip to say their goodbyes. My mom and her 3 sisters spent a week with their grandmother just doing everyday things like going to the grocery store (she no longer drove). They got one of those electric scooters for her to drive so she could pick her own groceries, and had her practice in the parking lot. One of my aunts said, "Now Grandma, no wheelies," which sent some passerby into fits of laughter.
When they went back for the funeral, all my great grandma's friends talked about what a great time she had with her granddaughters. It was the best gift she could have asked for.
I hope you both enjoy the time you have left together. A little laughter through the tears. Beautiful and funny stories to help get through the pain. My heart aches for you both. My thoughts are with you and holding you both close. Take care of you. Breathe.